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I think the problem is that we don't really know what happens to us when we pass away. If we go by the bibles and I mean all of them, they say we go to Heaven if we are good and to Hades if we are bad.
The hope is that when we pass we will be reunited with our love ones in Heaven. Some people believe that when we pass away we are reborn into a new person. We also have people that believes that nothing happens we just stop existing.
I am Jewish, but I also am part Roman Catholic from my Dad's side. Which is why we also celebrate Christmas and Chanukah. My SO is Atheist. I also picked up on some of his beliefs as well.
I think some of the fear comes down also to, and hopefully this part doesn't really offend people. This is kindof the Atheist part coming out, but when you read the Bible. Everyone says that G-d is good, very loving and forgiving.
However, in the Bible its made out that he is very angry with humans. He tries to kill the first born (Abraham.).
Causes a great flood that kills both humans and other creatures. Granted he made a promise never to cause a flood like that again which is reminded by seeing rainbows. This goes on and on.... I mean then we have the book of revelations.
I remember this one guy I worked with at Domino's when he caused me to out myself. I usually don't bring up my sexuality and usually keep it to myself. I really don't care if anyone knows, I just don't being it up in conversations since there are people that can't stand someone that is Gay.
This happened around 1999, and this one guy told said to me, don't you want to go to Heaven. He told me that because I was gay I would not be allowed in.
Now he was making different types of remarks to me which I just took in stride and didn';t let it bother me. However, I really pissed him one day when he said that remark to me. This time I just said with a straight face that if there is people like you in heaven then I wouldn't want to go. I rather go to hell with the rest of the gay people as you repeated say to me.
I was like, the stuck up people will be in heaven and the gay people will be in Hell having an awesome party.
I was actually being serious because I don't want to be around people that are bigots.
Now back on topic even though my experience above sort of relates.
I don't personally keep up with the Vatican. However, I am glad the pope is doing better. I would hate to see that he has to suffer before he passes away.